Its a loose question in that it so broad you couold answer, everyone! The severity of the grudge being held will often be attributed to any actions taken by the holder. And there it lies! Only after the action taken by someone harbouring a grduge can we termine the cause of the action being attributed to the grudge.
How long were they holding it? Why did they hold it.
Who holds grudges is such a loaded question without defining and at the least giving types of grudges a rating! But are they a grudge unless you take action, display a behaviour related and associated directly to the why.
A throw away comment – he’s holding a grudge! But why ? he was jilted by her! She resents her, why ? its a long story but she still holds a grudge against her ex. Relationships! Are grudges exclusive to a relationship?
